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Power shift

I was sitting at the kitchen counter a couple days ago and Raya & her big sister Kaida were playing in the living room. Since Kaida pretty much talks all day long (mostly to herself or in conversation with toys), I've gotten to where I tune her out unless she's talking to me. I realized that she was saying the same thing over & over again (in a calm voice) and then I heard that she was saying, "I tan't dit up. I tan't dit up. I tan't dit up." (I can't get up) I turned around to see what was going on and saw this:

I laughed pretty hard when I saw them. Kaida's going to have to step up her game if she doesn't want to lose her throne. :) Or at least stop laying on the floor. Raya loves to find things that are the right height to sit on and Kaida laying on the floor is apparently the perfect height. I was surprised that Raya didn't hurt her. They're only about 4 or 5 pounds apart in weight but Raya is a lot stronger than Kaida. We keep joking that Raya is going to be an Olympic power lifter when she grows up because she loves to find the heaviest thing she can pick up and then carry it around. (that would fall under the "heavy work" category of sensory processing disorder :)
She's been doing some funny things lately. She learned to say the word that every parent dreads having their child learn: "NO!" but she has no idea what it means yet so it's still funny. Last night when we were sitting at the dinner table she started saying "Nooooooo!" The big kids thought it was hilarious, so of course she just kept doing it. They waved their fingers at her and said it back to her, so then she would wave her finger at them and say, "No, no, NOOOOO!" I tried to get them to just eat their dinner & ignore her but she was cute & funny and they couldn't help it. :)
We've been doing better with putting her in her high chair while we're eating. She's shown more interest in pretending to eat so we're giving her more opportunities to do it. We always give her a plate or bowl, spoon and cup to play with. She usually lasts 2 or 3 minutes before they're on the floor but sometimes she takes pretend bites and drinks and says "Mmmmmm!" and I think to myself, "How would YOU know?!?" :) She has actually surprised me several times lately though and let me give her tiny tastes of things. I gave her a tiny little drop of her formula this morning (she put her mouth on the can) and then she smiled and smacked her lips. I have no idea if she can even taste it or if she just liked the strong metallic taste of the can but it's exciting whenever she lets something into her mouth. If she's in the right mood and we offer something hard or crunchy, she'll bite into it. She doesn't bite it off but I think she likes the way it feels to have something scratch her teeth. (another sensory seeking behavior)
And speaking of sensory seeking behaviors, how's this one. I took her to the grocery store and put a couple bags of frozen vegetables in the cart next to her and she picked one up and held it the rest of the time we were at the store. She LOVES cold things! She likes to take the ice packs out of her backpack when we're not watching her and play with them too.
Oh, and she learned this too:
She walked around like that for several minutes. Nice.


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